Let’s be honest: making new friends in college can feel… weird. You’re older than you were in high school, everyone’s doing their own thing, and somehow you’re supposed to build a social life from scratch while balancing classes, roommates, and maybe a part-time job?
Yeah—it’s a lot. But the good news? You’re not alone, and everyone feels that way at some point.
If you’re a UMass Amherst student (or about to be one), there are plenty of ways to build real friendships and find your people—without forcing it. Whether you’re living on campus or in off-campus housing like The Boulders, these tips are your roadmap to creating a strong college community.
1. Join a Study Group
It’s a classic for a reason. Study groups are an easy, low-pressure way to connect with classmates. Not only do you get help with the material, but you also get to know people who are on the same academic track as you. Many UMass classes have group chats or Discords—ask around or start one yourself.
2. Spend Time at Campus Hangouts
Not all friendships are made in lecture halls. Spend time in places like the Campus Center, Du Bois Library, or even that one table near Peet’s Coffee—you’ll start to see familiar faces. It’s an easy way to ease into conversations and community.
3. Live in a Social Community Like The Boulders
Your apartment can make a huge difference. At The Boulders, you’re surrounded by fellow UMass students, shared amenities, and casual opportunities to meet people—like at the gym, laundry room, or just walking to the PVTA stop. It’s off-campus living with on-campus vibes. And yes, it really does help you make friends.
4. Follow & Join UMass Facebook Groups
From major-specific groups to roommate matchups, UMass Amherst has a Facebook group for everything. Join a few that fit your interests—you’ll find people asking for study partners, forming clubs, and sharing local events all the time.
5. Hit Up Local Hotspots
Places like Amherst Coffee, The Works Café, or Cushman Market aren’t just great for a latte—they’re where students hang out, read, and casually connect. Grab your laptop, hang out for an hour, and you might find yourself in a convo with the person at the next table.
6. Say Yes to (Some) Invites
You don’t have to go to every party or group hang, but saying yes once in a while is key. Even if it feels a little outside your comfort zone, showing up is how you find the people you do click with.
7. Join a Club or Campus Org
UMass Amherst has hundreds of clubs—from pre-med societies to dance teams to Quidditch. (Yes, seriously.) You don’t need to be a pro—just be curious. Campus Pulse has a full list of orgs, and many are super welcoming to new members.
8. Host a Mini Hangout
You don’t have to throw a party. Invite your roommate and a couple neighbors for pizza. Organize a group trip to Target. Little things go a long way when it comes to building friendships. Pro tip: The Boulders’ open layout makes it easy to host chill get-togethers.
9. Talk to People You Already See Often
That classmate who always sits near you? The person who shares your bus route to UMass? Start small: a quick “hey” or a comment about class. Familiarity builds connection, and sometimes the best friendships grow from casual, everyday moments.
10. Be Patient and Real
Not every convo will turn into a lifelong friendship—and that’s okay. Keep showing up, being kind, and staying open. College friendships take time, and they often grow in the most unexpected ways.
Final Thoughts: You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
College can feel isolating at times—but it doesn’t have to stay that way. With the right mindset, a little effort, and a good community around you, making friends gets a lot easier.
If you’re living at The Boulders Apartments, you’re already a step ahead. We’re more than just student housing—we’re a built-in community of UMass students who get what it’s like to start fresh. With shared spaces, social events, and a friendly vibe, The Boulders is the perfect place to feel at home (and find your people).
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